Published inILLUMINATIONAnorexia isn’t just a thin people problemA common misconception about anorexia is that anorexic people are all stick thin and gaunt. That’s not actually true. That’s the most…Jul 19, 2023Jul 19, 2023
Published inILLUMINATIONRed Flag #8: If all of his exes are “crazy”…About six years ago, my ex told his now-wife-then-girlfriend and his best friend that all of his exes (all 7 or so of us) were “shit asses”…Apr 26, 2023Apr 26, 2023
Published inILLUMINATIONCognitive Behavioral Therapy is the reason why you don’t go to therapyToxic Positivity is the new trend in therapy and it sucks.Apr 11, 20235Apr 11, 20235
Published inCurated NewslettersSometimes, I miss my abusive ex but those feelings are a lieHow trauma bonding masks itself as love and how it returns to haunt you years after breaking freeMar 11, 20233Mar 11, 20233
The problem with “Children of the Mist” isn’t Bride Kidnappings. It’s perpetuating prejudices.You don’t gotta be White to practice White Savior Complex.Jan 29, 2023Jan 29, 2023
Published inFanfareJennifer Lawrence: “Nobody had ever put a woman in the lead of an action movie (before me)”A list of amazing action movie ladies that came before JLawDec 12, 20229Dec 12, 20229
Published inILLUMINATIONI’m fat. I wish Taylor Swift had kept her “fat” scale scene in “Anti-Hero”This scene isn’t “fatphobia.”Oct 30, 20227Oct 30, 20227
Published inILLUMINATIONMy sister’s cult church goes to Mexico every year to “save the Mexicans”Resurrection Church in Boulder, CO is a cult that recruits college kidsOct 18, 20223Oct 18, 20223
Published inILLUMINATIONJennie from BlackPink lost a lot of weight and people are applauding it. That’s a problem.Superficial beauty standards still rules AsiaOct 15, 20223Oct 15, 20223
Published inILLUMINATIONKaren reports Japanese Woman to HR for eating a “sexy potato”People are ridiculousOct 13, 202224Oct 13, 202224
