Hm, is it victim blaming though? Or calling for accountability? At some point, even victims have to do a bit of soul searching to change the way the system has been working. Women are NOT off the hook and to say that we don't have a hand in any of this is to make it sound like we're weak and helpless. You can take your view of it, but I also know that we're not quite so blameless when some of us cater to the system.