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Published in ILLUMINATION-Curated

·Mar 11

Sometimes, I miss my abusive ex but those feelings are a lie

How trauma bonding masks itself as love and how it returns to haunt you years after breaking free — My dog died on March 7. It was pretty traumatic and not the peaceful passing I would have wished for her. A few days later, I texted my ex to let him know. I hadn’t spoken to him in about two years. We don’t communicate and it’s better that way…

Abuse

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Sometimes, I miss my abusive ex but those feelings are a lie
Sometimes, I miss my abusive ex but those feelings are a lie
Abuse

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Jan 29

The problem with “Children of the Mist” isn’t Bride Kidnappings. It’s perpetuating prejudices.

You don’t gotta be White to practice White Savior Complex. — .Recently, I was given the opportunity to pre-screen the documentary Children of the Mist and then later on, sit in a Q&A with the filmmaker, Ha Le Diem. This film is being put up for Oscar nomination and has a bit of Oscar buzz. …

Children Of The Mist

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The problem with “Children of the Mist” isn’t Bride Kidnappings. It’s perpetuating prejudices.
The problem with “Children of the Mist” isn’t Bride Kidnappings. It’s perpetuating prejudices.
Children Of The Mist

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Published in Fanfare

·Dec 12, 2022

Jennifer Lawrence: “Nobody had ever put a woman in the lead of an action movie (before me)”

A list of amazing action movie ladies that came before JLaw — Recently, Jennifer Lawrence said on Variety’s Actors on Actors segment: “Nobody had ever put a woman in the lead of an action movie” before the role of Katniss Everdeen (Hunger Games). I think Angelina Jolie would have some things to say about that statement, considering many of Angie’s movies are…

Jennifer Lawrence

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Jennifer Lawrence: “Nobody had ever put a woman in the lead of an action movie (before me)”
Jennifer Lawrence: “Nobody had ever put a woman in the lead of an action movie (before me)”
Jennifer Lawrence

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Published in ILLUMINATION

·Dec 9, 2022

Brittney Griner: Free from Russian Penal Colony, but a stupid move by the Biden Administration

Brittney Griner has been freed from Russian detainment, but before you applaud this, let’s break it down. The trade-off for Griner was to give Russia back an international arms dealer — a literal supercriminal who is dangerous to the stability of peace and the balance of power on the global…

Politics

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Brittney Griner: Free from Russian Penal Colony, but a stupid move by the Biden Administration
Brittney Griner: Free from Russian Penal Colony, but a stupid move by the Biden Administration
Politics

6 min read


Published in ILLUMINATION

·Oct 30, 2022

I’m fat. I wish Taylor Swift had kept her “fat” scale scene in “Anti-Hero”

This scene isn’t “fatphobia.” — I have body dysmorphia and have had two eating disorders (at different times in my life — one that I’m still struggling with now). At one point, I only ate 600 calories a day. Sometimes less. I also ran 6 miles a day, had a personal trainer 3 times a…

Taylor Swift

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I’m fat. I wish Taylor Swift had kept her “fat” scale scene in “Anti-Hero”
I’m fat. I wish Taylor Swift had kept her “fat” scale scene in “Anti-Hero”
Taylor Swift

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Published in ILLUMINATION

·Oct 18, 2022

My sister’s cult church goes to Mexico every year to “save the Mexicans”

Resurrection Church in Boulder, CO is a cult that recruits college kids — You’re going to hell. In fact, we all are going to hell according to my sister’s church, Resurrection Church in Boulder, Co. If you do not go to their specific church and are their specific type of Christian, then you are going to hell. Good thing I don’t believe in…

Cult

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My sister’s cult church goes to Mexico every year to “save the Mexicans”
My sister’s cult church goes to Mexico every year to “save the Mexicans”
Cult

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Published in ILLUMINATION

·Oct 15, 2022

Jennie from BlackPink lost a lot of weight and people are applauding it. That’s a problem.

Superficial beauty standards still rules Asia — Asia is definitely less progressive as far as social issues are concerned. Technology? They’re the best at it. Engineering? Toyota Prius is the most reliable car 5 years in a row. Social issues? Not so much. It’s slow-moving and that includes beauty standards. Thin is still very much in. Here…

Women

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Jennie from BlackPink lost a lot of weight and people are applauding it. That’s a problem.
Jennie from BlackPink lost a lot of weight and people are applauding it. That’s a problem.
Women

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Published in ILLUMINATION

·Oct 13, 2022

Karen reports Japanese Woman to HR for eating a “sexy potato”

People are ridiculous — I like to read “AITA — Am I the Asshole” threads on Reddit, and recently, I saw this one make the rounds. Successful_Peace_929 writes: “It honestly feels ridiculous that I have to post this but my coworker has been getting onto me about this for weeks now, so I have…

Work

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Karen reports Japanese Woman to HR for eating a “sexy potato”
Karen reports Japanese Woman to HR for eating a “sexy potato”
Work

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Published in ILLUMINATION

·Oct 9, 2022

I wish Black and Asian and Brown influencers would stop wearing colored contacts

Your brown eyes are beautiful as they are. — It sounds innocuous. It shouldn’t matter because it’s “just eye color.” Just a cosmetic thing. But is it? Nose jobs to get narrower noses and higher nose bridges. Eyelid surgeries to get rid of monolids and hooded eyes. Chins and jawlines shaved down to elfin points until their round, ethnic…

Race

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I wish Black and Asian and Brown influencers would stop wearing colored contacts
I wish Black and Asian and Brown influencers would stop wearing colored contacts
Race

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Published in ILLUMINATION

·Oct 9, 2022

Payengxa Lor, a Hmong woman, just won Miss Universe Laos 2022 and why that is historically important

Payengxa Lor will be representing the country of Laos at this year’s Miss Universe pageant — A Hmong woman winning Miss Universe Laos is unprecedented, but this year, Payengxa Lor did just that. Winning means she will be the first woman of Hmong descent to take part in the Miss Universe pageant in January 2023. …

Miss Universe

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Payengxa Lor, a Hmong woman, just won Miss Universe Laos 2022 and why that is historically…
Payengxa Lor, a Hmong woman, just won Miss Universe Laos 2022 and why that is historically…
Miss Universe

2 min read

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